Posts Tagged ‘building marriage relationships’

22
Oct

I Want Better Sex

   Posted by: Kenny    in i-want-better-sex


Are you telling yourself “I want better sex?” Are you really hoping and praying that your sex life could be spiced up? Are you wishing your spouse would pay more sexual attention to you?

Do you think that your sex life has lost that excitement and charm that once attracted the two of you together? Is your partner losing interest in making love to you or is it simply the fact that you aren’t having sex half as much as you used to? Then, when you do have sex, is it just not as enjoyable as you had hoped?

If the answer to any of these questions is “yes”, it means you should consider taking action and making your sex life better. One of the best ways to do that is to take a look at your relationship first.
One of the most surprising things that my wife and I have discovered in our marriage role is that most “sex problems” have nothing to do with sex. Most “sex problems” are
actually relationship problems.

Many couples like to think that if they have great sex, they have a great relationship. Great sex, however, does not necessarily lead to a great relationship. It is almost impossible to fix bad sex within a bad or failing relationship.If you are facing a problem with sexual bliss in your marriage, you have to first look at
the relationship before you attempt to fix the sexual part of it.

Think about your entire relationship without sex first. After all, this is where your relationship hopefully began. It began when the two of you being introduced.From there you became friends perhaps, and then later realized there was a romantic
connection.

Go back to that time in your life. Revisit the relationship without sex and try
to remember what it was you liked so much about your spouse without the pressures of

sex.

God wants the Christian couple to have a solid, loving relationship based on nurturing,
caring, sharing, respect, and their faith in Him. He also planned for the Christian marriage
to experience the passionate
power of sex.

It is believed by many Christians, myself included, the best sexual experience you will ever have in your life is through the manifestation of married couples, husband and wife. Because this is the only way a sexual relationship should ever occur.

When you say “I want better sex”, you’re saying that you want a closer relationship with your spouse. Take the time to go back now, and find out what it was that excited you about your spouse before sex was introduced, and start treating your spouse that way to start. Work on building your relationship back up first, from there, and then see what happens to your sex life. You Will be surprised.

Whether you are struggling with some aspect of your marriage or just looking to “spice things up,” you will find something from the resource link below that will help to make your marriage more fulfilling, exciting and fun.http://www.betterchristians.com/info.php
Wishing you passion in all,
Kenny Ingram
http://www.betterchristians.com

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12
Oct

Sexual Guides For Christians

   Posted by: Kenny    in i-want-better-sex


It’s hard to make the transition from ‘sex is bad’ when you are young and single to ‘sex is good’ when you are married. In fact, sex is the most wonderful gift God ever gave Christians.
Sexual guides for Christians is incorporated into the Bible, and describes how God wants His children to have a fun and enjoyable sex life. We shouldn’t carry a lot of guilt from parents who said sex is bad. We shouldn’t believe that sex has to be just the missionary position thing, and that you have to do it every Sunday night, like good Christians. That’s not at all what God intended when he made a man and a woman to be together. God created sex between a husband and a wife to be cherished and to be exciting and that’s what it’s all about.

There are some important areas in a Christian relationship which should be focused on in order to keep things fresh and exciting. Sex should definitely be an area that Christian couples should continually focus on and work towards keeping things exciting and new. This is what inspired me to do some research on the idea, and find out if there is acutally any merit behind those ideas. To my surprise I found out that my beliefs about sex were totally wrong, and my whole life I had been programmed to believe that sex in a marriage was the most exciting when the relationship first began, and eventually deminished as time went on. My research allowed me to find some reading material to help my wife and I to experience sex as the exciting, fun and marriage-building experience that God intended it to be.
If you are looking to experience sex as the exciting, fulfilling and marriage-building experience that God intended it to be, then you might want to check out the same books that I found. Here are some titles you might want to review. “Sexual Skills For Christian Husbands” “Sexual Satisfaction For Christian Wifes” “Tastefully Illustrated Sexual Positions For Christian Couples” “Sexual Fun And Games For Christian Couples” “When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood”

Whether you are struggling with some aspect of your marriage or just looking to “spice things up,” you will find something from the resource link below that will help to make your marriage more fulfilling, exciting and fun.

Explore our sexual guides for Christians. http://www.betterchristians.com/sex.php

Wishing you passion in all,

Kenny & Melissa Ingram
http://www.betterchristians.com/

I Want Better Sex

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30
Sep

Better Christian, Better Love, Better Life

   Posted by: Kenny    in i-want-better-sex



 

 

 

Our goal is to share whatever we can find to help people
become a better christian, how to have better love in their lives,
and to have a more fulfilling life.
This clip is interesting in that it teaches you how to be a servant.
Practice this, and you will see that the more you are a servant
to others, the more you will receive in return.

 

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27
Sep

Building Marriage Relationships

   Posted by: Kenny    in i-want-better-sex

The Scriptures say that God designed and created marriage as a good thing. He created it as a beautiful, priceless gift, and meant it to help us with building marriage relationships. Marriage also helps us to deal with our own issues of self-centeredness through sharing our lives with our partner. We must be teachable on how to love, and this marriage union provides that opportunity. The opportunity for you to learn how to love unconditionally. It is difficult. It is wonderful. It is life changing.

This series is about love. It’s about learning and daring to live a life full of loving relationships, building your marriage relationship This should be a life journey, and should start with the one who is closest to you, your spouse. We have designed this series into a 40 day plan that carries with it a day to day course of action. It will be a difficult and challenging process, but the rewards will be incredibly fulfilling.

It will require a steadfast determination and definite commitment. This is a life process, and shouldn’t be taken as a form of entertainment, a test, or just sampled. Those who quit early will forfeit the greatest benefits. If you will commit to a day at a time for forty days, the results could change your life, and your marriage, but you must take the view that instead of following your heart, you are choosing to lead it. The world says to follow your heart, and enjoy the here and now. You must instead decide to lead your heart, because if you aren’t, then someone or something else is. The Bible says that “the heart is more deceitful than all else (Jeremiah 17:9), and it will always pursue that which feels right at the moment. This series is not meant to teach you how to change your spouse, but rather a process of exploring and demonstrating genuine love, even when your desire is dry and your motives are low. The truth is, love is a decision and not just a feeling. It is selfless, sacrificial, and transformational. When love is truly demonstrated as it was intended, your relationships are more likely to change for the better.

As you go through this series pay attention to what it means to genuinely love someone. Perform each task that is given each day. If outside situations prevent you from accomplishing them, just pick back up as soon as you can and proceed with the journey. Keep track of what you are learning, and how your spouse is reacting along the way. This will be valuable information for you later.

Remember, you have the responsibility to protect and guide your heart. Don’t give up and don’t get discouraged. Resolve to lead your heart and to make it through to the end. Learning to truly love is one of the most important things you will ever do.

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Now these three remain: Faith, Hope, and Love. But the Greatest of These is Love (1 Corinthians 13:13).

May God bless you as you begin this adventure.

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