Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

A typical problem for friends of mine is their belief that you have to drop 50 pounds and/or be financially secure prior to being able to create long-standing love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.

It is wonderful to desire to look your best, feel your best, have high self-esteem and feel good about your financial situation. It feels truly wonderful to feel secure, confident, and beautiful.

There are a MASSIVE amount of corporations that feed on peoples’ low sense of self-image. At some point or other, we have all fallen prey to buying that new piece of exercise equipment that promises to make it easy for us to tone up, slim down and own a beautiful body. Supplements, special diet foods or dieting plans, products for our hair, skin, teeth, libido, you name it! And these things are directly aimed at one basic premise – that we’re not actually OK the way we come.

We are so used to this type of thinking that we hardly even realize [what is. It is no surprise that we do this. After all, when we are born, at the beginning of our existence, we’re loved and treated as perfection – at least most of the time. Then soon we are compared to how the previous sibling evolved, at what time they developed this ability, sitting, crawling, learning the language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are the same or dissimilar to this one or that. “Oh, she looks just like Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You know the drill.

Begin by analyzing your recurring beliefs and emotions about your body. Most people don’t actually realize that they have stuck energy or feelings from these previous experiences. Negativity, whether pervading or mild, feels bad and many of us just learn to bury it, deal with it, or drive it further into the unconscious. These influential emotional experiences usually continue to be subjugated. We’ve all heard the term “emotional baggage.” We go through life with old unresolved, paining, intense feelings continuing to be held somewhere inside of us. Those emotions transmit to the Universe to reflect back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.

Begin to transform your connection with yourself by creating lists of what you appreciate about you. What truly works about yourself? What can you appreciate about your appearance? Think of 10 affirmations every day that you truly love about your body. Do you like your eyes? Are you appreciative of working fingers? Make lists of the positive things about you and watch your energy and vibrational point of attraction begin to improve. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

Pat, a woman from Washington DC, deeply wants to spend her life with a love life partner but is worried about being financially stable before attracting her ideal relationship.

I really feel for you, and you are not the only one feeling this way. That’s a very common feeling for men and women. However, if every external factor needed to be perfect before we did something in life, we would be sunken in quicksand waist-deep for the remainder of our lives, wouldn’t we? The Law of Attraction just does not function that way. This means life doesn’t need to be that way for you either.

Your financial situation, your body, your house, kids, mother, whatever situation or factor does not need to be perfect before you can attract your ideal mate into your life. You want to know how I know that? Because the outside factors were not even near to perfection in my life before I attracted the love of my life. If I can do it, you can as well. Find a Life Coach today!

Here is what I would like you to consider: we all have a lot of judgement about ourselves for our lives being less than perfect. Please consider going easy on yourself. Begin searching for factors that are functioning fully in your life. As I so fervently teach concerning the Law of Attraction, what you think about is very attractive and how you actually ‘feel’ about that is magnetic. A Law of Attraction Life Coach can help you break through emotional barriers.

Begin by creating lists of things you like about you concerning as many facets of your life you can think of. This is a super vibration raiser. Writing this down will help you in having something to refer back to when you need a reminder about how well your life truly is. When your vibration is high you are in the attracting mode. When you’re feeling insecure or vulnerable with your financial status, you’re actually attracting more of that – insecurity and vulnerability. Lean to free yourself from these patterns of thought with a Law of Attraction Life Coach and attract Wealth and Love today!

Start empowering yourself by having better self-analysis. Notice where the internal dialogue about being ‘less than’ comes up and simply notice and choose to think a better feeling thought. These are some simple ways to get the Law of Attraction working for you immediately.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

Susan from North Carolina came to me because she is concerned that she will never again get another husband because she is convinced no one desires to walk into a ready-made family. If this sounds like you or a person you know, you could believe that, but it is just not so. I know many women who have little ones, teenagers, and everything in between and they have still acquired a man who adores them and their children. He is out there. If you have the desire, you have the ability to attract this amazing love into your life.

In my Magnetic Attraction program I speak about the importance of creating a list. This is a listing of qualities that you want in your ideal mate. In the case of feeling insecure about creating a lover who will totally love and accept your children, this would be an item you could place on your list. “I desire a man who loves me and accepts my children and they love him too”. Let’s say that’s the creation or desire. Now it’s your job to align with your want.

As a Law of Attraction Life Coach and relationship expert, you learn to purify your affirmation by getting the low expectation, belief or contradictory emotions out of your energy.

Beliefs that “nobody wants an already established family” is an outdated doctrine that was taught during the age you are the most receptive, adhering to mass consciousness and doesn’t serve you. It’s not even true.

It’s important to know that you’ve a program running in the back of your mind. Your subconscious does not allow you to have your wants achieved due to the previous beliefs that were predominant for you as you were growing up.

It’s just like a computer. If you have an outdated version of a word processing program on your computer and your friend emails you a document in a new format, you cannot open it on your outdated machine because the programs just don’t sync up. You can fix this problem with free Love Advice for Women.

Clarifying your desire fully and consciously and moving into the place of knowing you can have it, that you deserve it, and feeling as if it’s already on its way. Get the Love Advice for Single Working Moms you deserve today. This mindset puts you in the category of being deliberate and intentional about your thoughts and wants. Now you are in the creating mode.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

“I do not want to be hurt continuously, but I really want to be with my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?

You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start healing and letting go of the past. Considering you desire to find your soul mate, then I’d do the work in letting go. It’s faster and easier than you think. Getting assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the path.

Being guided to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating energetic area for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.

I can hear some of you right now saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be forgiven for his actions. He was wrong and that’s just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. What’s more, that slow energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in the present moment. When you don’t have your consciousness in the moment, do you think you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from going forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by getting help from a life coach.

I have found that the idea of forgiving can be a convoluted one. Firstly, I’m not speaking of the kind of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you desire to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to know what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the space of pain, you’ll either attract more pain or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.

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