Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

“I do not want to be hurt continuously, but I really want to be with my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?

You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start healing and letting go of the past. Considering you desire to find your soul mate, then I’d do the work in letting go. It’s faster and easier than you think. Getting assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the path.

Being guided to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating energetic area for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.

I can hear some of you right now saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be forgiven for his actions. He was wrong and that’s just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. What’s more, that slow energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in the present moment. When you don’t have your consciousness in the moment, do you think you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from going forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by getting help from a life coach.

I have found that the idea of forgiving can be a convoluted one. Firstly, I’m not speaking of the kind of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you desire to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to know what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the space of pain, you’ll either attract more pain or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

“I frequently seem to attract a partner who’s emotionally unavailable. What can I do to alter my vibration”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the main negative vibration I recurred from my lengthy history of relationship failures. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived far away or was travelling all the time.

When you keep attracting unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is there an aspect of your life that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be transparent in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to take in at the moment, but that’s what I find to be the case most of the time.

As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get really clear about what you desire. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you desire in your ideal mate.

You make the list for yourself so you can attain clarity concerning what it is you truly want. You’ll start to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you create the list. You will see where you should go to strengthen your level of creation or belief in the likelihood of creating what you are desiring.

To evoke the state of feeling happy expectancy, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want it”? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful activities you’ll do together. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.

You make the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clarity – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!

Most of us have been trained from childhood to accept what you get, it’s not polite to ask for favors, why can’t you just be content with what you have? – kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the fulfilment of your desires.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …

If you’ve tried repeating positive realizations, messing with vision boards and various other utilities to assist get you in the attracting mode and they haven’t worked, there could be a couple reasons. Affirmations and Vision Boards are tools you can facilitate when you want assistance in digging into that emotional place of what it’s like to have your desire manifested. If you’re practicing using these tools and not truly seeing the feeling place, then you’re just doing a repetitive action and won’t likely get a lot of positive output. If you are finding that feeling place and persistently not getting results, then chances are you’ve got more resisting energy than you realize. I was at one point in the same situation. I did not understand what was in the way. I had to get life coaching that manifested all of the difference.

Speaking of affirmations, remember the Universe mirrors your vibration, your aligned intentions, not the ideas you speak. So you can think and speak all day long, and if you’re projecting jealousy when you see someone else who has a thriving love relationship, you’re projecting a feeling of lacking. And not a thing has to actually change around you in order for your beloved to manifest. You do not need to relocate to a larger abode, or a nicer area, or a city that’s populated with singles or couples whichever way you view it. All you have to accomplish is begin where you are and end the resisting energy.

Imagine a scale. You know, the the scales of justice. Picture it equally balanced with no weight on either side. Now picture that each occurrence you put a positive intention over on the right side you put weight on the attraction side and each occurrence you have a doubting thought, you place a weight on the resisting end. Where do you imagine you actually weigh in? The funny thing is, I thought I was a positive person. Oh boy, was I wrong. Not only did I have a lot of baggage about previous relationships, but I didn’t even realize it. Along the way it’s helpful to have a Law of Attraction Life Coach who is skilled and objective who can understand to what is happening in your life and help you uncover the limiting beliefs.

The truth is, if you only practiced massive appreciation and stayed feeling good, you would be releasing a lot of resistance regularly and any of your wants would be created very darn fast. Use Spiritual Life Coaching for New Relationship Courses to your advantage. So continue appreciating all that’s working in your life!

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …

Do you ever question if you’re with the ‘right’ one? How would you truly know for sure? This is a question people ask me when the relationship has several ups and downs. The problem could simply be you are getting many mixed signals, or it takes a lot of grueling effort to have the relationshiop run smoothly. Do not get me wrong, a relationship  does take effort, but they need not be hard work. Communication is fairly simple. You can feel free to say what’s on your mind. When relationships become hairy, and they will, you have the courage and presence of mind to smoothe things over later on by taking responsibility for your actions or words.

A healthy relationship shouldn’t seem like difficult labor. Love and mutual respect are at the core of any relationship. That being said, you shouldn’t underestimate the power of the Ego to mess things up. Not understanding where you’re at in your personal development, it is difficult to know what’s occuring in your life. In any relationship, you have the ability to remake what you have. That is correct. You can re-evaluate your current relationship. Any person committed to being in a lasting, loving relationship will need to remake it using relationship advice to keep it fresh and alive.

I am going to assist you in banishing all of the muddled signals you have been taught concerning your emotions. You are ready to attain the clearness of what your mind is attempting to communicate to you; and best of all – you will never anymore be in the dark concerning whether you are ATTRACTING a great relationship or RESISTING one. Bottom line is, you want to know how to get the Law of Attraction working for you.

The real question is are YOU allowing the Law of Attraction to work for what you TRULY desire? In other words, the Law of Attraction is continuously mirroring back to you your dominant vibration. What you want to know is, what is my main intention on the topic of creating a perfect relationship? I answer these kinds of questions and lots more pertaining to new relationship advice for men in my Law of Attraction Life Coach and training programs.

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